Final reply. I am a bit distressed you can't find this information on your own. The last thing we need is someone who needs help from us every 5 seconds.
You can do the following:
http://www.darkageofcamelot.com/ .... download the complete trial, everything is free now.
Or using DAoC portal change the settings to use the US version and patch.
Really, if you can't figure this out maybe step away from the computer for a bit.
